8 Things I Wish I’d Known Before I Became Self-employed

When I started my first business, I didn’t know another self-employed person. There was no Internet and not many books that were written for someone wanting to create a one-person operation. It was all trial and error…lots of error.

Today there are abundant resources, but some of the most important things I learned, still aren’t being acknowledged. Here are eight things I wish I had known sooner.

The business you start out with is not the business you end up with.

By it’s very nature, business is an evolutionary process. As you change and grow—and as the marketplace changes and grows—you’ll make adjustments.

The good news is that you can get started wherever and whenever you want without having to know every detail. Be willing for your business to deliver pleasant surprises.

Refuse to take advice from uninformed sources.

It’s easy when you’re filled with self-doubt to listen to dreambashers. Don’t do it. And don’t solicit advice from those who have failed.

It’s amazing to me how often I talk to people who have abandoned a great idea because someone who knew nothing about their business (and probably wasn’t even self-employed themselves) talked them out of it.

Know the difference between an expense and an investment.

Many new self-bossers see any outlay of money as an expense. While your business will have costs associated with running it, spending money now to produce a greater good in the future is an investment. Your money needs to go to both.

What you don’t know can be learned.

Part of building a successful business is determining which parts of it make your heart sing and which make your heart sink. Once you know that, you can farm out the parts that you’re not good at.

Equally important is learning how to research your ideas and connect with informed sources. If you operate on the assumption that you can acquire the information and skills you need at every stage of development, you’ll always have the pleasure of being a voluntary student.

Personal growth is a daily activity.

Paul Hawken says, “Being in business is not about making money. It’s a way to become who you are.” I became self-employed because I was curious about what I could become. Self-employment continues to be my best teacher.

There’s a basic truth you need to keep in mind: you can’t outperform your self-image. In order for your enterprise to reach it’s fullest potential, you have to reach yours. An occasional seminar or personal growth book or CD isn’t going to have the impact that daily work on your self will. Happily, there’s an abundance of tools to help you do just that.

Don’t confuse a project with a dream.

Your dreams are your ultimate destination; a project is a step along the way. Too many people use a project failure as an excuse to abandon their dreams. Know the difference.

Patience is your best friend.

There’s a fine line between being patient and being a procrastinator. It seems to me that what many people call failure is simply running out of patience, giving up before their idea had a chance to blossom.

For most freelancers, patience is an on-going challenge.

Know the difference between taking a risk and taking a calculated risk.

Timid people who are not self-bossers think that you’re a wild person jeopardizing your family and finances. Nothing could be farther from the truth.

Studies have shown that successful entrepreneurs take risks, but they’re cautious, calculated ones based on research—and intuition.

Of course, part of the appeal and adventure of being joyfully jobless is not always knowing exactly how things will turn out.

  • http://mzazeela.tumblr.com/ Marc Zazeela

    I think the best advice is don’t take advice from someone who has no experience and don’t listen to the naysayers.

    Cheers,
    Marc

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    • Chris Green

      Thanks a lot John, much appreciated!

  • http://Www.headshotsuk.co.uk Helen – headshots London

    What a great article. Having been self employed for a few years now I only wish I’d read it when I first started.

    • Chris Green

      Thanks Helen, glad it was useful.